Coming home to yourself, what does that actually mean?
- Jul 3
- 4 min read
Coming home to yourself… it sounds like a destination, an end point, maybe even a promise of peace. But if you really listen inside, you will feel that it is not a goal to reach. It is not a perfection to strive for. It is a remembrance. A re-membering of something that has never really been gone.

In a world where we often search for meaning outside of ourselves, more and more people are longing to return. Inward, to their hearts, to the place where everything is already quiet and true.
We say things like,
“I want to come home to myself.”
“I feel like I’ve lost something, and that something is me.”
“I want to live from my essence, instead of from survival.”
But what does it actually mean to come home to yourself?
And why does it sometimes seem as if we have moved so far away from that place?
When did we lose touch?
Perhaps you recognize the feeling that you are alive, and at the same time not fully present. That you are constantly ‘on’, as if you are living in survival mode. That you act based on expectations, are in your head, adapt, and in the meantime drift further and further away from the silence within yourself.
We do not lose contact with ourselves because we have failed. We lose it because our system once learned that it was safer not to feel. That survival was more important than connecting. That you had to take care of others first, before you could be there for yourself.
And in that silence, in that absence of yourself, a longing arises. An inner cry that you may have ignored for years, but that has never stopped whispering:
“I want to go home.”
Coming home to yourself is a movement, not a destination
Coming home to yourself is not a state in which you are never touched again, never waver or never doubt again. It is not an end point of personal growth. It is a rhythm. A cyclical homecoming, over and over again.
It is the journey from head to heart, from outside to inside, from control to trust, from fear to embodied presence.
Coming home means giving yourself permission to feel again, to follow your breath, to no longer ignore the signals of your body but to welcome them. It is an invitation to soften, to slow down, to truly be.
And to notice again and again,
I don't have to get better to be allowed to feel myself.
I am remembering who I am.
How does it feel to be at home in yourself?
Thuis zijn in jezelf voelt niet als iets wat je rationeel kunt uitleggen. Het is een ervaring, een zintuiglijk weten, een diepe zucht van verlichting die zegt: ik hoef niet meer weg van mijzelf.
Je merkt dat je minder zoekt buiten jezelf, naar goedkeuring, bevestiging of richting. Je voelt meer ruimte in je lijf, meer grond onder je voeten. Zelfs als het stormt, weet je dat je een bedding in jezelf hebt.
Je maakt keuzes die resoneren met je essentie in plaats van voort te komen uit angst. Je hoeft je niet langer te bewijzen, te forceren of aan te passen. En je ontdekt hoe je jezelf, juist in je kwetsbaarheid, met liefde kunt dragen.
Thuiskomen is belichamen. Niet denken over gevoel, maar gevoel toestaan.
Zak je dieper in je lijf, dan open je ook de deur naar herinnering:
Herinneren wie je bent onder alles wat je dacht te moeten zijn.
Why coming home can also feel scary
Coming home to yourself sounds gentle, but it also asks for courage.
Because in the quiet within, you don’t just encounter love, peace or bliss.
You also come face to face with everything that once had no space, the pain, the old patterns, the parts of you that were never welcomed.
And that can feel intense.
Because coming home means seeing yourself in your fullness.
Not just the light, but also the parts you’d rather turn away from.
And staying with it, feeling it, allowing it. Not escaping, but holding. Remaining present.
And it is exactly that which brings healing.
Know that you don’t have to walk this path alone.
You are allowed to be held
Coming home requires a sense of holding, a safe space where you’re gently invited to reconnect.
A place where your body is allowed to soften, your heart can open, and your soul is free to breathe.
Where nothing is expected of you, except your presence.
In my work with Kundalini Cosmic NRGY, Spinal NRGY and the Sacred Remembrance Journey, this is exactly what I offer:
a space where you are invited to remember what has always lived within you.
Your light, that was never lost.
Your softness, which holds immense strength.
Your truth, rooted deeply in your body.
Sessions as portals
Every soul is different, and each one needs a unique portal to come home.
Feel for yourself which portal is ready to open for you now.
Kundalini Cosmic NRGY
An energetic journey that helps you drop into your body, feel deeply, and awaken to your true essence.
• In small groups of max. 6 people or 1:1
Spinal NRGY
A deep realignment of your body, energy and life path.
For those who long for clarity, grounding and energetic alignment.
• Private sessions only
Sacred Remembrance Journey
A 6-month path of embodiment, integration and spiritual homecoming.
A tailored 1:1 healing journey of 6 months
The shift you long for… is only eighteen inches away.
A Soft Invite
You don’t have to wait until you’re ‘ready.’
There’s nothing you need to prove, nothing to fix, nothing to perfect before taking that first step inward.
All you’re asked to do is slow down, feel, and listen
to that quiet whisper inside that says:
“Come back. You are welcome here. It’s time to come home.”
And maybe… this is the moment you’re meant to feel it.
Not tomorrow. Not someday.
But now.
You are so deeply welcome.
Love,
Khanh
Je hoeft het niet met je hoofd te weten. Jouw lichaam, jouw hart, jouw energie weten vaak al wat klopt. Lees de beschrijvingen van de sessies, voel de woorden en merk op wat er in jou resoneert. Als iets in jou zacht wordt, nieuwsgierig wordt, opent of wil ademhalen, dan is dat meestal een teken. En je mag me altijd een bericht sturen als je samen wilt voelen wat past.